{"id":383,"date":"2021-01-14T06:00:27","date_gmt":"2021-01-13T20:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.robbinsrendezvous.com\/?p=383"},"modified":"2021-01-14T06:00:27","modified_gmt":"2021-01-13T20:00:27","slug":"reflections-on-the-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/?p=383","title":{"rendered":"Reflections on the Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_style\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/Family.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-384\" src=\"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/Family-150x143.jpg\" alt=\"Family\" width=\"150\" height=\"143\"><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><strong><span style=\"color: #800080;\">The Family is the most <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #800080;\">essential human community<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style\">\n<p class=\"paragraph_style\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong><span class=\"style_1\">FAMILY<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span class=\"style_2\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_2\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"style_3\">1. The Family is a Covenant Relationship:<br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"style_4\">the family is God\u2019s greatest institution for sanctification.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"style_5\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_2\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><span class=\"style_6\">\u2022 We are all born narcissistic, (<\/span><span class=\"style_7\">preoccupied with self<\/span><span class=\"style_6\">). A focus outward must be learned.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_2\"><span class=\"style_6\" style=\"color: #993300;\">\u2022 You can choose your friends but you can\u2019t choose your family.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_3\"><span class=\"style_6\" style=\"color: #993300;\">\u2022 The family is forever. Friends come and go.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_2\"><span class=\"style_6\" style=\"color: #993300;\">\u2022 The fact that there are more single adults in society today than in recorded history has profound implications for society.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_2\"><span class=\"style_8\" style=\"color: #993300;\">\u2022 The family is the first (and often only) place we experience unconditional love, where we know we belong, where we first see that love is not a limited pie, where no one needs be left out.<br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"style_9\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_10\" style=\"color: #008080;\">2. The Family is an Inheritance across the generations:<\/span><span class=\"style_6\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_8\" style=\"color: #993300;\">Our families all pass some positive legacies to us down through the generations<\/span><span class=\"style_6\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">, but both blessings and curses can naturally extend down through a family\u2019s generations.&nbsp; Our society is forgetting the blessings of the extended family.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"style_7\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_11\" style=\"color: #008080;\">3. The Family is the primary place where an individual\u2019s calling is expressed, championed and supported.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_10\" style=\"color: #008080;\">4. The Family holds the primary God-given responsibility (and authority) for raising and training of children.<\/span><span class=\"style_6\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_6\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Families can delegate some or all of this authority for educating children, but they remain responsible. When families abdicate their primary responsibility for their children in abusive ways, other sphere\u2019s of society, particularly government, may then exercise their secondary responsibility for children.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"style_10\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_10\" style=\"color: #008080;\">5. The Family is the most essential human community:<\/span><span class=\"style_6\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_4\"><span class=\"style_6\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The nuclear family reflects God\u2019s triune nature as the essential model of community (authority without domination). It is the universal model for all other extended communities and organizations.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_style_5\"><em><span class=\"style_12\">Allan Robbins<br \/>\n<\/span><span class=\"style_13\">June 2003<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Family is the most essential human community FAMILY 1. The Family is a Covenant Relationship: the family is God\u2019s greatest institution for sanctification. \u2022 We are all born narcissistic, (preoccupied with self). A focus outward must be learned. \u2022 You can choose your friends but you can\u2019t choose your family. \u2022 The family is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,3,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","category-allans-thoughts","category-world-view"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/383","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=383"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/383\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=383"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=383"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robbinsrendezvous.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=383"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}